Cybering Etiquette

Category: Dating and Relationships

Post 1 by LeatherAndLace (Generic Zoner) on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 14:56:14

Is it ok to cyber with someone and then go to another screen and do someone else?? Is that cheating? lol You know you guys and girls want to respond!! Let me know!! Oh and this is just for fun!!

Post 2 by ori9303 (This site is so "educational") on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 17:56:45

um wow Pea Pod! lol
Personally that is not my thing. However, it really depends on the two people and their relationship to each other. If you are both just having a good time and know that the person is talking to other people, that is one thing. However, if you are both interested in each other, that might not be such a good idea. The key is honesty. You have to be honest with that person and let them know how you feel about them. The last thing someone wants is to be led on. It could be just fun for you but to the other person it could really mean something. So honesty and the two people make the difference in this sitchuation.

Post 3 by LeatherAndLace (Generic Zoner) on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 18:35:46

oh but what if they both want you at the same time in the same convo?? lmao like you and um courtney??

Post 4 by ori9303 (This site is so "educational") on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 18:38:45

omg roflmao! I am not even going to answe that one.:P

Post 5 by rdfreak (THE ONE AND ONLY TRUE-BLUE KANGA-KICKIN AUSIE) on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 19:56:55

I am going to leave this one alone myself, even though I just kinda didn't! :)

Post 6 by Texas Shawn (The cute, cuddley, little furr ball) on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 21:51:05

hmmm, so is it possible to have a cyber 3 some, chatting with two women at one time, right?

Post 7 by SingerOfSongs (Heresy and apostasy is how progress is made.) on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 23:09:36

*shrugs* AS long as you're being honest with everyone, that's all of your business.

Post 8 by Emerald-Hourglass (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 13-May-2009 23:11:14

weeeiiirddd...

Post 9 by Thunderstorm (HotIndian!) on Thursday, 14-May-2009 11:25:11

wow! I just saw this post and of course this is the down under zone's secret going on with many many zoners I guess.

so my best suggestion is, be safe, don't hide your love from all of us. so that you won't be get cheated as you're a 99th partner for someone. lol.

I'm an innocent.

Raaj.

Post 10 by Crazy (Veteran Zoner) on Thursday, 14-May-2009 13:45:10

well, umm, personally i've never had a cyber threesome or anything like that, and, as for cybering two people at once, if your not in relationship, and your just doing it for fun, then who cares?
you only live once man, enjoy it

Post 11 by cammonbear (Account disabled) on Thursday, 14-May-2009 17:50:23

bears like orgies!

Post 12 by Albanac (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Thursday, 14-May-2009 18:42:22

Gota agree with the majority on here. It's only cheating if you're in a relationship with someone at the time. Interesting topic lol.

Post 13 by Maiden of the Moonlight (Zone BBS is my Life) on Thursday, 14-May-2009 21:20:18

Omfg, lmao Cammonbear!

Aw Robyn, so you cheated on me? Lmfao omfg jk jk jk, but no I dunno, as long as you're not with someone, I so agree with Herv. Live it up while you can! :D

Post 14 by midnight sun (you can't catch me, i'm the palobread man) on Thursday, 14-May-2009 22:17:47

i say join the two other people in the same conversation and have a 3 way thing. you're not cheating, not hiding anything, no risk of sending to one what you meant to send to another, and if you like orgies like apparently bears do, (and i know that just because of post 11, he's the one with the experience not me), then you'll enjoy it.
seriously though, i tend to agree with many on here. if you're with someone and you go cybering with whoever, then in my opinion it's cheating and it's just as wrong as can be. if all of you are doing it for fun then, see above. lol

Post 15 by Thunderstorm (HotIndian!) on Friday, 15-May-2009 9:01:57

so am I eligible to cyber with anyone? since I'm not with human being, you see. I'm just with my fluffy wuffy pillows.

I dono much about european culture but I honestly feel it's wrong.

Post 16 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Friday, 15-May-2009 11:03:57

i totally agree with Hervie chocolate bar. i haven't had a 3 way sibering thing either, and i don't particularly want to. if your not with someone, then it's nobody elses business how many people your sibering with, it's not like your commited to anyone. like others have said, as long as everyone involved kno that it's just for fun, and nobody developes feelings that the other doesn't share, then it's all good. but, if feelings do develope, then it's up to the people involved to sort that out betweeen themselves. unfortunetly, that's the only draw back of sibering...the being careful of someone getting feelings for the other person.

Post 17 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Friday, 15-May-2009 11:06:38

sorry for the tragic spelling, it's like 1 in the morning here, and kinda not paying attention. no i'm not sibering either. lmfao! and i was gonna say something else, but i forgot. :P

Post 18 by LeatherAndLace (Generic Zoner) on Friday, 15-May-2009 11:22:16

Ahh ok i shall tell my friend tha she should just keep on doing what she's doing. I told her to use protection but she won't listen! Good advice Liz!!

Raaj paaj my number is ..... lol i love you all!
i just can't decide who to pick lmao!

Post 19 by cammonbear (Account disabled) on Friday, 15-May-2009 12:59:39

protection, thought it was cyber? i am a confused bear i will go back to my 6 somes, bears have many paws for a reason!

Post 20 by Sword of Sapphire (Whether you agree with my opinion or not, you're still gonna read it!) on Friday, 15-May-2009 15:25:21

I agree with Herv 100%! It doesn't matter how many people you siber with at once, as long as you're not in a relationship. And the same goes for any other kind of sex, depending on your morals and values.